When holding doors, use those moments to observe what’s going on around you
• When in a public place with her, allow her to sit in the least vulnerable seat (ie against the wall facing the crowd) and be aware of the location of the exits however ideally position yourself so that can be aware of all that is going on in the place AND be in a physical position to protect her.
• Always think of how you can put her first. Allow her to order first, walk first, sit first, etc. If you do this from a place of strength rather than need to impress, she will notice.
• Spend time in conversation learning about her and her world. Give her room to open up and don’t talk about yourself too much. When she shares a vulnerable thought, empathize and add your opinion in a caring way
• When walking down the street, walk on her side that puts you between her and traffic
This list could go on forever, but again I simply want to encourage you to begin to look for insights into all the ways you can protect her physically and emotionally.
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